Tunnels Openvpn - Lan to lan - Nethserver 7.9, port open 3389 server windows, red client

Did you already exclude firewall issues on the Windows server itself?

You may check the network traffic with tcpdump:

Please secure the public RDP connection as good as possible (SSL, 2FA). As an alternative you may use a roadwarrior openvpn for internet clients to access the Windows Server.