Ehi I’m so sad about your situation my friend, you know this, I hope you will be better but we need to stop this.
Bear with me man 
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My father in consultation for the stent, chronic pain due to what is a foreign body that has been encapsulated for years and generating infection and inflammation. He was sent many antibiotics and strong anti-inflammatory drugs to cope with the pain until he could operate.
The bills exceed all that we can from the support I received through Paypal.
I understand Ale brother. please if you can get me out of the community i appreciate it. i gave up on all the networks. i will take care not to rush the universe and try to solve my chaotic life.
To all I thank you a world. Hugs and many Blessings
I am writing in this thread, to tell you all about my family, due to the horrible and critical situation currently hardened in Venezuela, my parents will not be able to be attended I decided to the high cost of health care. We will give them more quality of life as a family and enjoy the time in the face of so many adversities.
My wife, and children and the baby is my niece, my brother Joshua’s daughter that thanks to you during COVID and mostly @robb helped us to keep them alive.
Looking at the picture from left to right my person, Joshua who survived the battle of COVID and my older brother Jesus at the home of my brother Joshua’s in-laws. Where their youngest daughter was baptized
My mother Doris with her granddaughter, unable to see her due to blindness from the chemo drugs. But happy to be with family. My father could not attend because of the pain he suffers, my uncles took care of him.
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Please keep it professional on the forum
Excuse me, I’m a professional. I’m just posting information that everyone who supported me should know. I will no longer ask for help here not anywhere else. My parents are dying on me and I decided to stop asking for help and give them quality of life as a family. Again I am sorry to be seen as persona non grata.
And if so. You are free to remove me from the community and I will understand. A hug and blessings
That is not the case and up to me.
my personal opinion is to use the forum for NS related topics and the chat for familiy or non-forum topics.
Again. This is my opinion and you are free to post what ever you like. I’m not a dev 
Man thanks for this but we can’t help you more. And adding pics don’t help you and us, please stop.
I wish you the best
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I don’t see this as a big problem.
Or do we only build communities when it suits our own interests?
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I don’t see this as a big problem.
I didn’t either.
When you’re sitting on dry land, it’s wonderful to philosophize about those who are about to drown in the sea of life.
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Brothers and sisters, I truly and sincerely feel bad for my condition. I understand we are from different cultures, and I appreciate every kind gesture from you. I don’t want to burden you with my problems because they are truly mine alone.
Unfortunately, for the sake of my parents, I have tried so hard to keep them alive, but my battle is over, I cannot win, and I will give them quality of life as a family.
I understand, Alessio, that you cannot help me anymore, but sharing my photos of my parents relieves me that you are here until this moment and that you saved my brother. We never received help from the local or national government. Everyone with COVID only saw their family circles, and only you supported me.
I am truly drowning in so much sadness.
A fraternal hug to all of you. I will dedicate myself to supporting the netserver community from scratch.
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I rubbed my eyes because I couldn’t believe you really wrote that. I’m embarrassed, and as Community Manager, you don’t speak for me.
Do you also tell drowning people not to kick their legs because it doesn’t help and they’ll drown anyway?
It doesn’t matter whether it helps US. If it helps HIM to be able to express and share his worries, it should be a small effort for us to endure this pain.
On the contrary, it will probably help US more than HIM if we don’t close our eyes and instead witness the misery of the world in his personal fate.
It may be that this forum is primarily for professional education. But it may well be that compassion is the other side of the coin.
Of course, we cannot even take away his worries, because that is beyond our capabilities, not to mention the worries of everyone else.
But compassion and warmth can also be expressed by looking closely and including someone in our prayers.
No, as long as it is permitted here to show pictures of our vacation trips around the world, demonstrating our prosperity and carefree lifestyle, it is only fair to share one’s suffering in the hope that someone will empathize.
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1000 likes for this statement from my side.
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Dear Brothers,
I don’t feel fully appreciated, and I sincerely apologize—as many times as needed. If only you knew the inner loneliness I carry, which I can’t show my family or children, you might understand. I share my struggles with you because I have no one else here to talk to. I live in constant anxiety, and while I haven’t been able to gather the full amount, meeting this goal feels overwhelmingly difficult.
On other platforms, I’ve faced xenophobia simply for being Venezuelan—nothing more. Even some Latin neighbors have treated me this way. Not everyone can step into another’s shoes or feel true empathy. God, the pain they’d feel if they tried… Few of us have privileges, but despite our financial hardships, I find happiness in my children and wife, with God in our hearts. I won’t lie: I’ve argued with God in private, and He always guides my emotions back to peace—until I end up apologizing to Him.
I know this isn’t what the community is meant for, but your words of encouragement truly help me.
Thank you for listening.
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Other 1000 likes here!
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I really appreciate your words of encouragement. I’m currently developing an APK signing app published on my GitHub and Ko-Fi site. I’ll soon launch the app for use with NS8 and its APIs. I’m looking for a disk to install NS8 on an old PC a neighbor lent me for testing.
https://ko-fi.com/post/APK-Signer-Tool-P5P41GB2Z7
Greetings, a big hug
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I’m sorry but you misunderstood me.
I have known Jose from the beginning of this forum. I know everything about him and we chat a lot. I received tons of pics and stories about his family.
I know his pains and situation very well. i feel powerless.
What I said is trying to concentrate pics and writings in one place, avoiding to opening multiple threads, chats, and posts over other discussions.
That’s it.
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Dear @alefattorini and community,
Today, with a trembling heart, I ask for your forgiveness. Watching both my parents battle cancer made me lose my way. I flooded chats and posts… not out of disrespect, but because the terror of losing them was suffocating. Please forgive this silent burden I carry!
Alessio, you made me feel human again. When your t-shirt and letter arrived, my family and I wept like children. Finally, someone saw us! In all this darkness, you were the first to say: “You are here, you exist”.
Trying to split $100 between two families is heart-shattering, but I’d do it forever for them. During COVID, you saved my brother and three families… but now being Venezuelan is a chain. Doors slam shut, and all we have left is fighting a system that devours us: what little I raised couldn’t cover my mother’s bone marrow surgery, and when converting it to bolívars, local exchangers charge up to 10% per transaction. Black-market dollars and inflation turn every coin into a war!
To my earthly angels – @alefattorini @capote @mrmarkuz @robb @Andy_Wismer @transocean @davidep @stephdl and every soul who reached out – I pray to God: “Protect them as they protected me”.
I am rebuilding myself day by day. The anxiety left by COVID still whispers shadows, but your light guides me. Forgive my stumbles… and thank you for being my compass when I was lost.
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I will get labeled as heartless, mysogonistic, antisemitic and every other thing. But this ISN`T facebook or social media, this is a community about nethserver and nethserver things, not about personal trauma. If you want to go out fishing for complimenty/condolences/sympathy, there are places for this, but this here isn´t.
@eclois1991 Your feelings were hurt, because someone called for order, when users spam the board? This whole post, all his postings in the chat and stuff is spam. The whole bunch should have been deleted at the first place, without having it discussed with you, because it´s fucking SPAM/OFFTOPIC.
If @jgjimenezs had followed the rules (not spaming etc) he wouldn´t have had to be reminded to behave. And you (and the wouldn´t had been given the opportunity to shine a white social-justice-warrior…
@saitobenkei Yes, were building communities around topics we like/share. Because we like the topic (yes, that´s the same thing as “suiting our own interessts”). Don´t try to blackmail other with social-justice-morals, when it´s backfiring already. Tehre are other “communites” which are specialized on social interactions instead of deadling with facts/problems, a very famous one: Facebook.
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As the one who rejected your flags, this is (IMO) the reason we have a Chat category. You’re free to ignore it if you like. Most forums have an off-topic section; this one is no exception.
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