Hi Rob, yes that’s correct to assume.
At first, the zpool is created and there is an increase of activity. This is also to be expected when you replace a disk and re-silvering is performed. But it should not be continuous.
Usually you need 1GB of RAM for each TB of storage.
This changes if you use encryption, deduplication and compression.
Add another 500 MB of RAM per option / TB. Also it will be processor intensive. (the curve gets easier with RAM increase)
You can monitor the resources used and i guess that it will not go over 8 GB on regular use.
On intense periods you should see around 12-15 GB used with 80% pool usage activity.
Maybe you can try zabbix to monitor the server.
Adding a 240 ARC ssd drive should help
It’s really interesting to see how your setup will perform in the future.
Keep us informed